it's okay...to do things differently.

I've decided to dedicate this blog for the moment to writing what I love. Things that are simple, that make me happy, that others can easily connect with. 

I don't really care anymore about gaining tons of followers {or losing them, for that matter}. If you don't like what I have to say...or if I don't "post enough" for you, then that's tough poop. Your loss! After doing this blog shindig for a year now, I've realized who are my friends and who will always be there for support or to just drop by and say hi. And that's ay-okay with me.

It's okay...to not post every day of the week. I'm going to write something when I feel compelled and when I have the time. I used to get up early and write, but can't do that anymore since baby girl gave up her morning naps. And I'm finding I like to spend my days with my crazy toddler. She's only little once.

It's okay...to not respond to every single comment that I receive. I try to, I really do. The key is to respond right away and not wait until your inbox is on overflow. I'll get back to you, especially if you're a new follower.

It's okay...to hate winter. I used to love it growing up. When snow meant days off school and time spent in snowsuits followed by hot chocolate. But when it starts to feel like half the year is freezing and gray...let's just say I can see why people get seasonal depression!

It's okay...to not care what other people "tell" you when it comes to raising your kids.

It's okay...to not use cloth diapers and not plan on using them. I don't mean to offend anyone. I'd totally do it if I could justify the extra time and upfront expenses. I just believe that with all of the extra things that are needed to successfully cloth diaper a baby, the expense ends up being the same as buying disposables. And...I'm kinda lazy :)

It's okay...to compulsively clean up the nug's tornado path even when she's not done playing. Yes, she'll rip out every last toy again, in the matter of five minutes. But I like to keep my sanity.

It's okay...that the nug still sleeps in our bed. A month ago I would've said differently, but she sleeps SO much better in there, with us. It won't last forever. We can enjoy this time together.